The success of someone trying to recover from chemical dependency is greatly enhanced when everyone involved in the situation receives support and counseling. As a significant person in the life of a drug or alcohol abuser, we have had to live with problems caused by the abuse. Most of us are emotionally entangled as a result of strain, stress, distorted thinking, fears, resentments, self-pity, and other negative factors. In Parent Group through the 12 steps we learn to turn from an attitude of defeat and frustration, to a new way of life that is responsive rather than reactive.